One of the best things that I can think of doing is blogging on an issue that relates to our culture and try to look at it from a biblical perspective. Today I finished a great book called The Death of the Grown Up that I heard of from one of my living heroes, Dr. Albert Mohler. He wrote a blog on it over a year ago and it was sitting on my mind until I finally decided to read it, and I am glad I did! The author of the book, Diana West, gives a great historical analysis of how America has gone from training children to be adults, to letting the youth stay in perpetual adolescence. Some of the statistics I found were alarming. One that has stayed in my mind for many months was about the show SpongeBob, which is on the Nickelodeon channel. That channel has its target audience between the ages of 6 and 11. But about one-third of the people who watch SpongeBob are between the ages 18 and 59! Another fascinating thing related to Seventeen magazine, a magazine started in 1944, with the aim to, "give stature to the teenage years, give teenagers a sense of identity, of purpose, of belonging." And just to bring the point home, West brings up that, "The average video gamester was eighteen in 1990; now he's going on thirty." So instead of prodding teenagers to become adults and be attracted to things that adults were doing, a whole new market was made for this age group to be comfortable in and feel no pressure to grow up. They could even stay as an adolescent beyond the teenage years in this new subculture.
As if that's not bad enough, parents are also contributing to this delayed adulthood. We have probably seen or heard of the parent that dresses like his/her children, listens to the same music, and just wants to be the child's friend. As a result teenagers have no role model or example in society of what a grown up is. Even if the teenager wants to grow up into a mature man or woman, there is nowhere that that teen could belong. It's not hard to see how this applies to everyone beyond the teen years.
The consequences are great for this sort of immaturity. For American society, there is another force out there that preys on this detriment according to Diana West, Islam. If people don't want to look at what is really happening in our society and they don't want to deal with it rightly, which has happened many many times in regards to Islam, then Europe and the US will slowly start to become more and more like the Middle East. We don't want to offend Muslims so that bombs won't be detonated on civilians, so we'll call Islam a religion of peace. We don't want protests or assassinations, so we'll call a cartoon unacceptable that jokes about someone telling Islamic martyrs that paradise ran out of virgins. We fear intimidation and threats of more bombs blowing off, so we'll refrain from saying Islamic societies are evil, even if they treat women horribly and have a history of expansion by violence.
It's easy to lament this sort of thing, but how do we handle this as Americans, and even moreso as Christians? The Bible says for older men to teach younger men to be self-controlled, and for older women to teach younger women a myriad of things including being pure, self-controlled and keepers at home (Titus 2:3-6), and Paul exhorts all guys to "act like men" (1 Cor. 16:13).
Being unskilled in God's Word is how the writer of Hebrews describes an immature man (5:13). Discerning between good and evil is what the mature one does (5:14). That obviously goes for more than just recognizing that Islam is not a religion of peace and a direct threat to our freedom (as important as that is). It means testing
all things and holding fast to what is good (1 Th. 5:21). It means being able to descern truth from error, false teachers from true shepherds of the flock. It means not letting the culture define what you do, but to let the truth do that as it pertains to all issues. If you are a Christian, don't stay a spiritual baby.
Grow in the grace and knowledge of the Lord Jesus Christ (2 Peter 3:18).